There will always be someone around you that’s going to have something negative to say so it’s best to find success from people you do not know and then take it back to the ones you do know.
When starting off any dreams, do not ask for support or limit the support those close to you have on your dreams. With their support, on many occasions their opinions will be so strong that they will damage your dreams without being aware of it.
Ruining relationships and friendships. It is not because they are an enemy but because they felt comfortable to do so. People that do not know you will find the parts they can agree on and focus on it, using that to push you along your journey, still finding a way to voice their opinions.
The people that are around you are comfortable with you. They will say and do anything to you if it’s on their minds. They do not know that they are stopping your dreams. They just think because no-one else has done it and they couldn’t either… Then they don’t agree that you will be the one to accomplish it.
People you don’t know, have little reasons to go against you unless to them you do not have a point or you are a threat to them. This is where the true criticism comes in. Most of the times these criticisms are not insults but things to fix, and not a fact about oneself. If it is nothing to be fixed, it shows that you are a big treat on your way to accomplishing your dreams.
If the people you don’t know, don’t see a point…. they will let you do you and keep on living, but the ones that see’s a point would join your journey. Now the ones that didn’t see your point, will one day choose to stop and review you, to try and see your point because other’s are seeing your point.
This way instead of giving up on your dreams easily because of people bringing you down, you will be shooting for the top knowing that you have many people waiting to see your dreams come true. You grow and glow on a higher level when people feed into you but never take out.
In the end, those close to you will not feel comfortable going against your dreams because by then your accomplishments will be great. If they do, they will now know that they are the fool to not want to see you succeed. For when the world is behind you, who will be behind them?! Forcing them to see and want to be apart of your dreams so as to not be left out.
In the end you will succeed with all, rather than some. This is why businesses and friends will never mix. It is easier and faster to find success around people you do not know and harder and slower around people you do know. It is even more painful and dull around the ones we hold so dear.
We choose to go to what we are familiar with, putting our dreams into another’s hand, when other’s can not dream our dreams like we will. What one can do when his dream is in his own hands, is far greater than what one can do looking for validations from another hand.
-Abigail
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Every person has a right to dream ….. be free of real life situations…. as their heart soars …. lifts beyond restricting one’s self to friends and foes.
Unknown people don’t judge with a bias as they relate to what they see and feel …. walk away when you may be wrong or praise you when you are good and on the right track.
Did not realise this consciously until I read this article….. an eye opener…..appreciate the insight…and thanks for bringing up the subject!👍👍👍🙏🏼
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Absolutely. Glad it resonated with you. It’s my pleasure.
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Brilliant post. ❣
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Thanks Amber. Hope you have a good day today. ❣️
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Welcome and you! ❣
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Thanks. 🙂
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Thank you for sharing!!… “Your time is limited, don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living the result of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinion drown your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition, they somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary” (Steve Jobs )… 🙂
Hope all is well and you and yours have a wonderful holiday and Merry Christmas filled with love and happiness!!.. 🙂
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You couldn’t have said it better. Thank you. Hoping that all is well on your side of the world. Happy holidays and Merry Christmas to you and yours also. 🎄 ⛄
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Merry Christmas 🎄 from Australia 🇦🇺
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Thank You! Merry Christmas to you and yours also…. And a Happy Holidays. ⛄ 🎄
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Merry Christmas and happy holidays.<3
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Thank you! Hoping that you had a Merry Christmas as well. Happy Holidays to you & yours. 🙏💙
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Thanks dear.
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My pleasure.
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Insightful and thought provoking….thanks for sharing 👌👌
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Thank You!
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Most people who will push you back from pursuing your dream are the ones that are too scared to go for it themselves. With that in mind, keep going for the life you desire 🙂 Wish you all the luck and joy on the road!
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So true. Thank you for your kind words, it’s much appreciated. Wishing you Luck and Joy on your journey also. 🙂❣️
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You’re welcome and Thank you! 🙂
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My pleasure! 🙏
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Very well explained..
True..at times support comes from unexpected people…people you know may not want to give enough push while a stranger may pull..
Stay blessed 🙏😇
Have a wonderful year ahead 🙏🙏
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Thank You! Yes, Absolutely. Same to you, as well…. Hoping that your year is everything that you hope for. 🙏🙂
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🙏🙏
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Beautifully penned
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Thank You!
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sono perfettamente d’accordo con te e complimenti hai un blog molto interessante;)
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Thank you so much… I appreciate your kind words.
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Great post.. 😇🙏💙
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Thank You! 🙏😇
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A pleasure, my friend 🙏🙏
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Wishing you a Happy New Year, filled with blessings. 🎉
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Thanks, god bless 😉🙏💙
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All the best 😉🙏💙
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